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Lesson

Rewarding Relationships

How can I make sure my relationships are healthy and positive?

Grade

10

Time

45 mins.
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"It's complicated" can describe many of our relationships with others, both romantic and otherwise. Add digital devices and social media to the mix, and things get complicated even further. Help students take the first step toward building healthy and rewarding friendships and romantic relationships, both online and off.

Objectives:
  • Reflect on how their relationships are affected by devices and the internet.

  • Identify the qualities of healthy and rewarding relationships.

  • Use the Feelings & Options thinking routine to brainstorm strategies for navigating challenging relationships.

Vocabulary Show definitions
red flag feeling

red flag feeling – when something happens that makes you feel uncomfortable, worried, sad, or anxious
STANDARDS
This lesson meets standards for  Common Core ELA,  ISTE,  CASEL, and  AASL .  See standards
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Teen Voices: Friendships and Boundaries
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STANDARDS
This lesson meets standards for  Common Core ELA,  ISTE,  CASEL, and  AASL .  See standards
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Key Standards Supported

Common Core ELA

L.9-10.1, L.9-10.3, L.9-10.4, L.9-10.5, L.9-10.6, RH.9-10.1, RH.9-10.10, RH.9-10.2, RH.9-10.4, RH.9-10.7, RH.9-10.8, RH.9-10.9, RI.9-10.1, RI.9-10.10, RI.9-10.2, RI.9-10.4, RI.9-10.6, RI.9-10.8, SL.9-10.1, SL.9-10.1a, SL.9-10.1b, SL.9-10.1c, SL.9-10.1d, SL.9-10.2, SL.9-10.3, SL.9-10.4, SL.9-10.5, SL.9-10.6, W.9-10.1, W.9-10.10, W.9-10.4, W.9-10.8, WHST.9-10.10, WHST.9-10.4, WHST.9-10.6, WHST.9-10.8

ISTE

1d, 2b, 3a, 3b, 3d, 4a, 4b, 6a, 6b, 6c, 6d, 7a, 7b, 7c, 7d

CASEL

1a, 2b, 3a, 3b, 3d, 4a, 4b, 4c, 4d, 5a, 5b, 5d, 5e

AASL

I.A.2, II.A.1, II.A.2, III.A.1, III.A.2, III.A.3, IV.A.1, IV.A.2, IV.A.3, V.A.1, V.A.2, V.A.3, VI.A.1, II.B.1, II.B.2, III.B.1, III.B.2, IV.B.1, IV.B.2, IV.B.4, II.C.1, II.C.2, III.C.2, I.D.1, I.D.2, I.D.3, I.D.4, II.D.1, II.D.2, III.D.1, VI.D.1, II.B.3

Lesson Plan

45 mins.

Consider: Texting and Talking

10 mins.

Explore: Friendships and Boundaries

15 mins.

Analyze: Flag It

20 mins.

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